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6-year-old boy has a secret, learning Taekwondo is to grow up to avenge his father often played. The day before yesterday, the City Library auditorium growth Wishing Tree, an old man tell a 6-year-old boy's secret has caused parents to a hot spot.

Secret speaking elderly Jiaozhu hair million, or the 12th day of the second unit from Phoenix Road, Shapingba District.

Zhu uncle said the other day, he accompanied 5-year-old grandson and a half to the city library practicing taekwondo. Road, a 6-year-old boy asked why learn taekwondo grandson, grandson could not say why, Zhu uncle instead grandson replied, "physical fitness", surprise, the other kids snorted, making a very unhappy look. Zhu uncle curious, then ask each other why kids learn taekwondo. The little boy began only say is a secret, you can not talk to anyone. Zhu uncle after repeated questioning, the boy just tell the truth --- because some small mistakes, he was often beaten his father that he grew up learning taekwondo is revenge for his father.

Zhu uncle asked the boy why not complain to her mother grandfather, the boy said he was grandfather said to her mother, her mother grandfather say obedient respect beaten, his father was the same way he was playing great.

Yesterday, the reporters follow the prompts Zhu uncle,FCdu9oXhpO, twists and turns, in Jiangbei District Dashiba Shimen Bridge to find 6-year-old boy. This is called Yang Yang (pseudonym) told reporters that the little boy, his father Dashiba lighting the city to do business, from morning to evening every day, your own mother in the countryside were brought old grandfather. After three years old, his father received his own town, did not live with his father for a long time, he began to "abandon" themselves. From the age of four, as long as they misplacing things, do not eat well, forget the punch on the toilet ...... father started a curse, more often hit, he hit three or four times up to a day to survive. Father beat themselves, sometimes with a coat hanger, sometimes slapping, sometimes kicking. This summer, my mother called Yangyang to learn something, Yangyang first chose taekwondo. He said, I just want to learn a skill, good to avenge his father grew up. Reporter to the military

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Yang Yang's father:

Kids grow up

Will understand my intention

Yangyang learn taekwondo avenge his father because his father often beaten, in his heart with a certain shadow. The question is why this fight father children?

Yesterday, this reporter asked Dashiba lighting the city to do business Yangyang father. Yangyang father said, did not expect their children to have such a secret. But he insists that this is a strict education, there is nothing wrong. He said: "smacking children is a long memory, repetition should not mistake the children do not understand now, grow up naturally will understand my intention.."

In this regard, who lives in Hong Kong Avenue of Jiulongpo Wang Xiangrong think straight, "Huang Jing stick under the good guys," strictly to educate their children,EaFm8XDqHR, is the traditional method of Chinese for thousands of years to educate the child. Yang Yang's father did nothing wrong.

Yangyang father's students:

Education intolerable force

Parents should be fine thoughts

"This method is undesirable, do not change will be a big problem." To learn Taekwondo for Yangyang issue to avenge his father, Yang Yang father's classmates, Property Management Ltd. Chongqing Xinyi Zhang, head over that he wants to communicate with classmates, change Such a way to educate their children.

He said education would force the child's body, resulting in some degree of psychological harm, the traditional way of education is already suited to social development, and parents should be fine thoughts. Modern children's education should be based on emotional communication, persuasion and education, encourage education, so that children will be educated sanity.

"Cursed education is very simple,ww7mB0s6vC, very rude." Shun Yeung, who lives in Yuzhong District Guanyinyan hole Zhang Qinghua, said what the times, still use the old-fashioned kind of education, children are learning kung fu revenge, do the parents are should not reflect on your own education?

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Shot when the shot should slow

Said . Children growing up on the road,basket nike tn homme, the traditional Chinese concept of education, mostly in children under rigid indoctrination passively wait for their own enlightenment. Notwithstanding the emphasis on the best use of the aphorism, but more emphasis on rigorous teaching. Including teachers, but also the ruler lifted, hundreds of corporal punishment.

So there are some successful examples, but there will be children impasse may even lead to tragedy. Known as Fu Lei, also harsh to spank a child, the last son of Fu Congpei will also develop a well-known pianist. But the process also has Fou bloom away the "danger" occurred, let Fu Lei afraid of old age, after thinking, and to repent son. Luo Mei Asia Suppliers Valley No. 29-17

Shot when the shot should slow

On the 6-year-old Yang Yang, although his father was beaten, but the lesson is not deep, so that the beatings his father regarded as enemies. This explains, Yangyang's father scolding education poorly, failed to achieve the desired results.

The beatings as a means of education, should have a moderate, like plants in the bitter, berberine, use is good food, good medicine.

Child made a mistake, it is not impossible beatings. But beatings process, we must let the child truly recognize their mistakes and where, in particular, let the child know love their parents. Therefore, the beatings must be appropriate caution. In fact, moderate beaten in a way, it is a child grow up valuable memory and valuable part, but also rational reflection on the traditional means of education.

As for persuasion and education, although it is a tendency of modern education, a democratic way of education, but also be careful not to become a long-winded reasoning. Always repeat the same argument, saying that a long time will become ineffective and if something other than force.

Zhou Xiaoyan Chongqing Normal University associate professor of psychology